Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: Unveiling Your True Leadership Potential
For ambitious women ready to reclaim confidence and own their power.
Ever found yourself wrestling with these nagging thoughts?
"They must have made a mistake, choosing me?"
"I feel like a fraud. Who am I to lead?"
"Why would anyone listen to me?"
"What if they discover I'm not good enough?"
"I must be wrong..."
If you’ve ever said one of these to yourself, welcome to the very real (and surprisingly common) experience known as Imposter Syndrome.
What Is Imposter Syndrome and Where Did It Come From?
First coined over 40 years ago by psychologists Pauline Rose Clance and Suzanne Imes, Imposter Syndrome — or the Imposter Phenomenon — describes the internal belief that you’re not as competent as others perceive you to be, despite clear evidence of success. You feel like a fraud, constantly fearing you’ll be “found out.”
While it affects people across all walks of life, it disproportionately impacts high-achieving women in leadership, entrepreneurship, and creative careers.
In business coaching for women, imposter syndrome comes up constantly — especially when clients are stepping into visibility, promotion, or power.
It’s not just about a lack of confidence. It’s an identity issue. It challenges who you believe yourself to be, not just what you think you can do.
Why Imposter Syndrome Matters in Women’s Leadership
On the Wheel of Life, imposter syndrome doesn’t just impact your career or business. It affects your relationships, wellbeing, creativity, and even your energy levels. It can delay your goals, mute your voice, and cost you opportunities you're more than ready for.
In my confidence coaching for women, I often see talented, brilliant women playing small not because they lack skills — but because they don’t trust their own value.
“It’s the gap between who you see yourself as being and who you think you need to be, to succeed and lead.”
How to Spot the Signs: 4 Common Ways Imposter Syndrome Shows Up
1. People-Pleasing
Are you saying yes when you want to say no? Taking on more just to feel worthy or liked? Craving validation to prove you belong?
🚫 Reminder: People-pleasing leads to burnout and resentment. You don’t need to earn your seat at the table — you already have it.
👉 Watch my video on overcoming people-pleasing.
2. Analysis Paralysis
Do you procrastinate under the pressure of making the “perfect” choice? Or pretend to be on top of things while secretly avoiding action?
🚫 Reminder: Clarity comes from doing, not overthinking. Start small. Ask for help. Just begin.
3. Perfectionism
Are you constantly tweaking and editing, fearing your work isn’t good enough? Do you delay launching or speaking up because it’s not “perfect”?
🚫 Reminder: Perfectionism is the enemy of progress. Your best effort is enough. Give yourself permission to be human.
4. Procrastination
Are you filling your calendar with low-impact tasks to avoid the high-impact (and scarier) ones? Are you afraid taking action will expose you?
🚫 Reminder: Procrastination is a mask for fear. You’re not lazy — you’re scared. But action builds confidence. One brave step at a time.
👉 Need help with this? Here's a video on how to prevent procrastination.
My Personal Experience with Imposter Syndrome
For me, Imposter Syndrome started young. I was often dismissed simply for being the girl — how could I possibly know more than my two older brothers? (Spoiler: I often did.)
Then came 'Good Girl Syndrome' — that unspoken rulebook of being polite, modest, agreeable, and never taking up too much space. It’s a trap many women fall into, especially in corporate or leadership settings.
It showed up as self-doubt. Silence. Staying small.
Even with experience, credentials, and results — I questioned myself.
Now, after years of inner work, coaching, and confidence-building, I help other women navigate their own imposter stories — so they can lead without apology, hesitation, or fear.
Three Practical Ways to Manage Imposter Syndrome
1. Practice Self-Compassion
Speak to yourself like someone you love. You wouldn’t talk to your best friend the way you talk to yourself — so let’s stop the internal bullying.
2. Challenge Your Inner Critic
Catch your negative self-talk in action. Then reframe it. Use affirmations, reflection exercises, and success journaling to remind yourself what you have done — and what you're capable of.
3. Get Support
You’re not supposed to do this alone. Whether it’s a coach, mentor, or community — support changes everything. (Book a call with me here.)
Final Thoughts: You Are Not a Fraud — You’re a Force
Let’s stop letting outdated beliefs and internal fears run the show.
You were never “lucky” to get where you are — you earned it.
You’re not “too much” — you’re exactly enough.
You’re not an imposter — you’re a leader in the making.
And you don’t have to prove anything to anyone. You just have to show up as yourself — unapologetically.
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